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It's not fair to the kids if you aren't going to stick around.
Divorce is a type of death and requires a process of grief, even when one may have desperately wanted the divorce. Most men live with guilt post-divorce, even when a divorce is more than warranted. BTW, if he's separated versus divorced, consider that a red flag. If he has a hostile relationship with his ex, you can expect a lot more complications than what will already naturally exist when dating or living with a guy who has kids.
The math in putting 1 1 together is hard enough; it's an equation we spend our whole lives trying to master until at last we form a solid pair. I met someone amazing, and at the same time, met his kids (also amazing). Now, some time later and armed with a better understanding, there are a few things I wish I'd known from the get-go that might have spared me some serious mental struggle: It sounds aggressive, as though I'm telling you that dating someone with kids will ensure you're always treated second-rate, never coming first and always neglected in some aspect for preferential love to the young ones. The kids will always come first, yes, but if he's a catch and you're lucky, you'll score second place.
Let me tell you about second place: This is where close members of his family reside.
Take from it what you will: Wait Even though my boyfriend was eager to introduce me to his kiddo early on, we waited a long time before it actually happened.
You have to make sure you're serious and your partner is serious before you bring the kiddos into the mix.
If he has a friendly relationship with his ex, how friendly is it? The ex dropped by, came into the home and maybe even had a key!